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A 3 minute relationship change
When your partner comes home with a problem, often your first impulse is to make suggestions to fix the problem. You tend to interrupt and show your knowledge. That may feel like you're helping but [...]
Being there is key to love
Keeping love alive
Understanding Angry Andy
Andy: Linda! I just asked you to pick up some bagels while you were at the store. I didn't ask you to reconstruct the universe! For years, Linda listened to Andy's anger. He was angry [...]
Smoothing conflicts during virus
These are difficult times. Here's a simple path to think about the situation facing you. Use the Three A's: 1. Appraise the situation. What is most bothering you? 2. Accept what you can't change but [...]
How to win an argument with your love partner
The short answer is you can not! But you can come to joint decision that pleases you both. Here's how: If you begin with the premise that there is a “winner” and a “loser," both [...]
Revealing Secrets can improve your relationship … but
When you and your love partner are open with each other, you both will feel safer with less anxiety. However, timing is very important. To tell too much too soon can hurt your relationship. But [...]