No matter how much you cuddle and Snuggle, and dance and prance — you WILL have disagreements. And that’s not bad. Disagreements allow you to merge your best ideas. Disagreements allow your love to flourish by giving your relationship energy. The key is an old cliche: Disagree with without being disagreeable. And listen to your partner’s side of the issue with your ears and — more importantly with your eyes.

That is: look at their face and their posture. What are they saying and how are they saying it. What is their tone of voice?

Then you can discover where you may be somewhat wrong — yes that is possible — and where they may be somewhat wrong, very possible! In this way you can find ways to merge your best ideas and return to cuddling and Snuggling — but now smiling and in general agreement. Hugs…