Couples should share their thoughts and feelings with each other to promote closeness. But what we reveal to our partner isn’t always meant for the eyes and ears of others.

With Facebook, email and Twitter circling the globe, personal information can be viewed by anyone. Before clicking send, discuss with your partner what you are willing to share with others. We are all entitled to a level of individual privacy when on the phone, reading snail mail addressed to us, and enjoying private time, alone or with friends.

(Share your comments about this topic, or tell us what works for you and your partner when dealing with privacy boundaries. We will only use your initials, unless you request otherwise.)