articles about life and love after marriage.

How to win an argument with your love partner

The short answer is you can not!

But you can come to joint decision that pleases you both.
Here’s how:

If you begin with the premise that there is a “winner” and a “loser,” both of you will lose. Resentment permeates the relationship unless a joint decision is developed.
To develop a joint decision requires eliminating these four argumentative methods:
— Blaming (It’s all your […]

By |August 14th, 2015|Categories: Empathy and Appreciations, Featured Articles|Tags: |

Revealing Secrets can improve your relationship … but

When you and your love partner are open with each other, you both will feel safer with less anxiety. However, timing is very important. To tell too much too soon can hurt your relationship. But if you wait too long — which is more common — you will become stressed worrying about being “found out.” Your partner will find […]

By |July 19th, 2015|Categories: expressing emotions, Featured Articles, Intimacy|Tags: |

Is 50 Shades of Grey Harmful to Society?

Is 50 Shades of Grey harmful to society? You bet it is! Here's why.

By |June 29th, 2015|Categories: expressing emotions, Featured Articles|Tags: , |

You don’t bring me flowers… anymore

Love needs daily nurturing.

You say you agree on almost everything? No way!

We will always have disagreements. If used in the right way this can help our relationship to grow.

5 Steps to Keep Love Strong – Guests on Heidi Godman Show

As we discussed on the Heidi Godman radio show, here are the 5 Top Steps for Keeping Your Relationship Strong and Loving:

Introduction: All couples have differences, but we can turn Power Struggles into Power Snuggles. Here’s how:

1. Learn What our Partner is Thinking & Feeling by listening to their words and watching their body language. Compromise and resolution becomes much easier as […]

By |March 24th, 2015|Categories: Featured Articles, Intimacy, Uncategorized|Tags: , |

Advice from Shakespeare

We met him outside the theatre where Anonymous was playing. This current movie alleges that William Shakespeare didn’t really write “his” plays.

Our question: Pardon us, but you look very much like William Shakespeare.
Will: (He quiets us with a finger to his lips, then motions with his hand to move to a quieter spot.) Yes, thou art correct. Will Shakespeare, here.

Q: […]

By |February 14th, 2012|Categories: Featured Articles, Lasting Love|Tags: , |

Platonic Love

Plato (427-347 BC), the Greek philosopher, was mentored by Socrates (469-399 BC).   Plato’s most famous student was Aristotle (384-322 BC).

Quotes from Plato’s writing

“At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.”
“Love is the joy of the good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the Gods.”
“He was a wise man who invented beer.”
(Plato and his friends developed their ideas […]

By |December 10th, 2010|Categories: Featured Articles, Intimacy|Tags: , , |

Relation Quotation

Quotes about love

By |January 11th, 2010|Categories: Featured Articles, Relation Quotation|Tags: , |